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NOT MY PLAN BUT GODS PLAN - CHANGE YOUR PERSPECTIVE

NOT MY PLAN BUT GOD'S PLAN - CHANGE YOUR PERSPECTIVE

Are things not going how you envisioned them to go? You are not alone. This year has been extremely life changing for me. Between losing my daughter's father this year and coming back to my hometown this was never a part of the plan.  If I'm being completely honest half of the things that happened was unexpected and came full force and I HAD ABSOLUTELY NO CHOICE BUT TO FACE IT. 

Sometimes I think to myself about what life would've been if all of those things didn't happen, then I remember that it's all a part of the plan. NOT MY PLAN BUT GOD'S PLAN. Lately I've been heavy on trusting the process because from my experience every time something went wrong , God replaced it with something I couldn't even imagine. It took me a very long time to realize that things don't happen to you, they happen for you.

Did you get your heart broken? 

PLEASE DON'T GIVE UP ON LOVE

Your friend betrayed you?  

PLEASE DON'T LOOK AT EVERY FRIENDSHIP THE SAME

You lost your job? 

PLEASE STAY OPTIMISTIC YOU WILL GET A NEW ONE

You aren't happy?  

PLEASE MAKE A EFFORT EVERYDAY TO SMILE



Moral of the story is you have the ability to change your perspective no matter what is going on.



"WE CAN'T CONTROL EVERYTHING , BE OKAY WITH THINGS NOT GOING YOUR WAY, WHILE STILL EXPECTING GREAT THINGS TO HAPPEN FOR YOU BECAUSE YOU DESERVE IT!"




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