5 REAL REASONS why you should feel better Today!

Having a bad day? I totally understand. I have mines too! It’s not a good feeling. Maybe you feel as if you aren’t where you need to be and it is eating you up inside. I am here to tell you you are exactly where you need to be!

Here are 5 real reasons why you should feel better:

It’s your Life Journey

We all understand that sometimes life can feel overwhelming due to the many situations we may come across on a daily basis. I want you to look at it as “This is your journey and it’s yours for a reason. No journey is perfect and there is no way to predict the future but we have the opportunity to create it. If you don’t create happiness around your life you won’t be happy.

You are Alive

So many people didn’t have the opportunity to wake up this morning. Here you are alive and breathing. Sometimes we take the little things for granted! There is someone out there fighting for their life, someone who cant see or even speak. Being alive is more than enough to change your perspective today.

You have people who love you

Although this isn’t about anyone but you, please look at the fact that you have people who love you. Like seriously! Genuinely love who you are. Some people have absolutely no one. Imagine if your world was empty and you had no one? Honestly, one thing I really love about the world we live in is that there are so many support groups for people who feel alone, a few being (Facebook groups, meetup.com, apps) & so many other social platforms to connect with people who are looking for companionship or friendship.

Having a Place to Call Home

A lot of people are living on the street. Literally sleeping on concrete with rats, roaches in unlivable conditions. Most of us are check away from being in these situations. If you have a hot shower , a safe place to sleep and a meal everyday you are living life! Literally! Those are our basic necessities as humans and if you have these things you are doing pretty good considering it is roughly 553,000 homeless people in the United States dated back to 2018 statistics.

Be grateful for Good memories

Although you are having a bad day, do you have any good memories you can think about and instantly laugh at? I’m sure you do! We all do! Everyday will be different so just take it one day at a time and keep the good memories at the front of your mind so you can blur out the not so great ones.

“I hope this shifts your outlook on your bad days.”

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