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Becoming Someone Different - Aligning with your Future Self


Are you becoming who you desire to be or are you stuck? I think this is the most challenging thing to ask. It is important to get clear on what you want so that you don't fall into the trap of becoming what you don't want to be! Everything we say we want must align with the decisions we make. 


REALITY CHECK.
You want to lose weight -> Did you change your diet?
You want to save money -> Did you create a savings plan?
You want a healthy relationship -> Are you actively working on yourself?

It's okay to want to become someone different, better, positive, optimistic etc. Whatever you want to become you are only one decision away from becoming!

Is everything you want aligning with your actions? If you answered NO, you are doing it all wrong. I know we often talk about manifesting but manifesting will not work if we don't put actions behind the things we say we want. We are in NOVEMBER, I challenge you to say “NO” to the things that no longer align with what you want. People will say you changed, so what! Don't let that stop you from chasing your dreams, being a better you or just simply stepping into a new season of BECOMING HER. It’s your life! Write your own play. Remember GOD knows the desires of our heart but it's up to us to show him how much we really want it.

Think about 3 things you want and go after it. Set small goals, they eventually turn into big WINS. I challenge you to Become Someone Different & Align with your Future Self.

YOU CAN DO IT!

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  1. AmandaFebruary 26, 2024 at 8:57 PM

    Wow ...this inspires me so much! You're awesome and I will take your advice:)

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