Your presence is power, Why people love you

I think it’s safe to say we have people who genuinely love us and a few who don’t care for us. It’s either your presence will inspire others or completely annoy their souls there’s no in between.

I’m not here for the small talk or to focus on who doesn’t care for us, I’m here to acknowledge the ones who do. Let’s face it the ones who don’t like us are weird because we are amazing 🫶🏾

Sometimes I wonder when people meet me and don’t like me do they immediately think that I’m loud, maybe I’m a little to extra whatever they are feeling about me is cool because I’m going to be who I am regardless and you should too! Why should I change when I have people who genuinely love me for who I am.

Reasons why people love you;

•You are great to be around

•You make them laugh

•You are encouraging

•You are uplifting

•You are who you are & they love it

Yes, I know I just named all the great qualities about you and this is what you should focus on! I believe that we all have things that we can work on but we all do have parts of us that are unmatched and rare to find.

I think that we should all look at ourselves as being amazing even on our down days and the tired ones too..

We aren’t meant to go through life begging to be loved or accepted but accepting the love we already have. I just want to say thank you for being you because the world needs that. The people who think you’re anything other than amazing are weird!

I hope this blog allows you to love who you are despite what people feel about you 🤎

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